HELP! WHAT SHOULD I WEAR TO MY BOUDOIR SESSION?
Hey gorgeous! Here are a few suggestions on what lingerie styles to buy and where you can purchase them, as well as some tips to make sure you look fantastic. If you need any advice or second opinions on what to get please feel free to email or text me!
Do's and Dont’s
Let's go over a few basic do's and don'ts when it comes to lingerie shopping.
DO get measured! Before you start shopping head over to your local lingerie store and get measured. It will make purchasing online so much easier. You can also use this guide to measure yourself at home: Measure at home.
DON'T purchase items and NOT try them on. It's important you try on everything you plan to bring with you to your session. You want to make sure everything fits well before your session date.
DO try and purchase one thing slightly outside of your comfort zone! A boudoir experience is all about feeling yourself and if there is something you have your eye on, but feel like it's something you would never wear, get it! This is the perfect time to try something new, fun and adventurous!
DON'T purchase a babydoll style. Many women think that this style helps cover your midsection but it actually makes it look bigger and is unflattering. There are better choices for that which we will cover in this guide.
DO remember to make sure you have support! If your boobies need extra support make sure they have it. Every outfit should give you the lift and support you want, so make sure your bras, body suits, etc. fit well and give you what you need.
You Can't Go Wrong Here!
At the most basic level, if you stick to bodysuits or matching bra/panty sets you can’t go wrong!
Here are a few places where you can get just about anything and there is a 99% chance it will look amazing on you!
Spicy & Strappy!
If you want to turn up the heat then here are a few suggestions for you!
Playful Promises Regalia Collection
Cute & Girly
If you’re into colors and frilly lace I got you!
Felicity Hayward Self Love Glam Set
Shein Floral Print Mesh Teddy Bodysuit
Sporty & Comfy
Athleisure and loungewear at its hottest.
Felicity Hayward Self Love Sporty Set
Skims Stretch Rib Scoop Bralette Set
Cover that Tummy! (Or Don't)
If you feel like you would like to cover your mid-section these styles are for you. Instead of going for baby doll styles which do not flatter your figure, opt for high waisted bottoms and bodysuits. These, along with my posing expertise, will make sure your body looks AMAZING! Plus, you'll feel comfortable and look HOT AF!
Playful Promises Curve Collection
Some Fun Extras
A few fun things to make your boudoir experience that much better! These are just suggestions to get you thinking.
Accessories
Accessories are truly personal preference and can enhance a little or turn the volume way up on your look! No accessories are necessary for your session but if you want to add flair or are already an avid lingerie wearer and want to up your game - these are easy ways to do it!
Footwear
Many women go barefoot for an effortlessly sexy look and feel.
If you do opt for a super sexy or glam look and want to wear heels, go for a spike or stiletto heel. This style will elongate your leg. Avoid chunky block heels or wedges as they can add bulk and draw your eye away from the main focus… YOU! If your legs are something you are insecure about, avoid ankle straps or ankle height boots as they cut the line of your leg off to the eye and make them look shorter.
Sneakerheads have even been known to showcase their prize sneakers in shots with sporty lingerie! Just make sure they’re clean!
Jewelry
Again, this is personal. From nothing but skin to dainty accents, all the way to a dramatic statement piece. Wear what makes you feel beautiful! The point of the shoot is to bring out your inner sexy goddess, not to look like you’re playing a part.
Stockings
When you think of traditional lingerie, many think of thigh high stockings and garter belts. Paired with a matching bra & panty set and sexy heels, the garter/stocking combo is a fun option and can really complete a formal lingerie look. Plus I’ve become a real pro at getting you ladies hooked up in those tricky garter snaps haha!
For an equally sexy but more modern take - try high waist fishnets! I am obsessed with this look and it is flattering on all body types. They come in options from tiny to super wide net openings and you don’t need heels to finish the look! I actually prefer them without shoes. My favorite style right now are the wide opening fishnets. Rock them with your favorite black panties, black thong or nothing at all underneath. Trust me this look is fire! Best of all they’re inexpensive!
SIDENOTE: Every single woman on the planet has cellulite or stretch marks and most of us haven’t come to terms with loving that part of ourselves yet…well lighting and posing will take care of this for the most part - BUT fishnets, even with the biggest netting are a great way to camouflage without completely covering anything! Bonus - they don’t roll down and you don’t get the leg muffin top that the elastic at the top of thigh highs can create. Here are a few of my favorites: High Waist Fishnets - Standard Sizes or High Waist Fishnets - Plus Sizes
A Few More Things…
Items you can bring to your session you probably already own.
crisp White Button Down
This look is more covered but very sexy. Make sure it’s one made of more structured fabric. The silky one's don't look as good.
Oversized Off the Shoulder Sweater or Cardigan
This can look amazing with high-waist black bottoms and looks amazingly effortless. Choose one that is a solid color.
Graphic Tee Crop Top
Find a tee with your favorite band or saying on it and then chop it in half! A little under cleavage peeking out is always sexy. If you don’t want to cut your favorite tee, we can tie it up! Here is a link for my favorite shop for sassy statement tees!
White Tee or Tank
Wet t-shirt contest! Just kidding, but you get the idea. Just make sure its fitted – it doesn’t have to be tight, but loose or baggy won’t work for this look.
Booty Shorts
Bring on the daisy dukes!
Your Favorite Jeans
Think 90’s Calvin Klein ads… jeans unbuttoned in the front or pulled down in the back to show off your booty without showing everything.
Just the sheets
When in doubt, we can cover you in nothing but a plain white sheet (don’t bring one – I have plenty) and it may be the sexiest look of all! To imply nudity without exposing too much, just bring a nude thong and we can use your hands, hair or the sheet to cover any other bits.
PRO TIP!:
Tags! Before you arrive, cut off those sewn in cloth tags if you’re lingerie is lacy, sheer or strappy so they don’t pop out and show. Make sure stickers are removed from the bottom of your shoes too!
Don’t Forget! If you need any advice or second opinions please reach out to me! Email or text is always best.
BIG FAT LIST of Online Lingerie Shops
For all of you who online shop to fall asleep at night :)
the majority of these sites offer both standard and curve/plus sizes!
…don’t forget to search for promo codes or sign up for email lists for a discount code before you purchase! Every little bit of savings helps!